When you can’t reach the standards of another’s heart you must ask yourself, "What value do I put on my soul that I would subject myself to such rejection?

Shannon L. Alder
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When you can't reach the standards of another's heart you must ask yourself, "What value do I put on my soul that I would subject myself to such rejection?" We all have our own personal standards for what we consider to be valuable. When someone meets or exceeds those standards, we feel validated in our own value. This is how we grow in our relationships. We understand that our soul is important and that it deserves to be loved in return. If we can't reach the standards of another's heart then we must ask ourselves why we would subject ourselves to such rejection.

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